Preparation
The Rehearsal
Procession
Entrance Rites
The Vows


Ceremonies may be simple, may be elaborate; they share certain essential components, their bones...


Ritual Elements





Ceremonies may be simple, may be elaborate; they share certain essential components, their bones...

Here is a map of potential key elements:

Preparation

Each couple and their wedding invites its own requirements and as such, we work together to find a process specific to your needs.







We meet with you to come to know the journey of your relationship and in what context your celebration occurs. Together we develop the choice of symbols, ritual elements, the vows... the artistry that is the expression of your core values as a couple.








A ring bearing instruction.


The Rehearsal

It is customary and a good idea to have a "run-through" prior to the wedding itself. This is its own occasion and a time for your wedding party to have a gathering. Sacred Fire Ceremonies, through its network of healing practioners and performers, offers you some unique opportunities. Here are some ideas:
 a yoga class
 a fire dance
 something that unites your intimates and prepares both you and them for the ceremony.


Procession

How we enter into sacred space as a gathered community is a pragmatically spiritual exercise where logistics, spacing and symbology meet. Either indoors or out, in a garden, a public park, an estate, a hotel, a field or church or street corner, wherever you have chosen as the "site" of your ceremony, orchestrating the entrance is how we begin. A May Pole, a formal procession alongside a river or an invitation to gather under an arbor by a lake are examples which allow for your congregation to arrive into the present moment. Working "site-specifically" with the physical surroundings of your ceremony makes an important and essential statement.








Entrance Rites / Invocation

Many religious traditions use smoke and/or incense as a means of cleansing a space and its energy field, stating the intention of prayer to the universe and consecrating objects and people, dedicating them to a holy purpose.

We invite the Spirit’s presence, invoke its mystery and ask for its blessing upon the gathered assembly; connecting us to the web of life so that we might entrain our energy to the highest vibration.




The Vows

Marriage is an intimate engagement between two people, yet exists within a context of community, thus a wedding ceremony is a public act whereby friends and family are witnesses and co-celebrants; the place where we come together to consecrate each other through vows of love.

WIth the exchange of vows and rings, talismans of the oaths taken, the couple embody the power of love to conceive, nurture and transform. We all participate in re-committing ourselves to the power of love to transform our deepest hurts, to keep our hearts open.


Weddings and Commitment Ceremonies with spiritual depth and unique elements

The Reverend Kathleen C. Mandeville, M. Div

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